Fear of Judgement is a Prison

Let’s talk about Fear of Judgement.
 
How many times have you held yourself back because you were worried about what other people would think or say?
 
I get it. I get it because I’ve been there and it’s still a struggle.
 
When you create a life on YOUR terms, not everyone will agree with it. Not everyone will like it. And truth is, you may lose some people along the way…..
 
Remember when you first became a mom and all the info you had to sort through….
 
breastfeeding v. formula
co-sleeping v. not co-sleeping
organic v. conventional
store bought puree v. homemade
cloth diaper v. disposable
 
You get the picture.
 
You’re raising a healthy little human (or have raised them). Mama you made it!
 
It didn’t matter what everyone had to say, you did what you needed to do to keep your baby alive while maintaining your sanity.
 
And whether you’ve realized it yet or not, life works the same way.
 
9-5 v. entrepreneur
digital nomad v. location dependent
kids v. no kids
vegan v. paleo v. whatever else
mama self-care v. martyr
 
No one said it would be easy, that’s for sure!
 
But, from this day forward, I’m going to tell you what to do…
 
LIVE LIFE THE WAY YOU WANT TO…
 
Stop giving other people the power to determine how you “do life”
 
Just live. Live….
 
In whatever way it makes your heart sing
In whatever way brings you joy
In whatever way gives you the biggest belly laughs
In whatever way works for your family
In whatever way leads to you achieving the goals you have created for yourself
 
You got this
 
xo,
Carmen
 
(This picture was taken almost 2.5 years ago! After being induced and in labor for over 24 hours, this little one was forced out via c-section. I should have known then she would be doing life on her terms!)
csection pic

Are you too comfortable?

Hey There, Mama!
Have you gotten too comfortable? Just taking it day by day?
When you get comfortable, you’re less likely to make improvements in your life.
Why?
Because you’ve settled.
You’ve become complacent.
nevergettoocomfortable
I’ll tell you right now that you won’t be able to achieve your dreams if you’re cozy in your comfort zone.
 
I won’t sugar coat it. I’m going to keep it REAL AF. Only because I’ve been there.
 
Wanting to achieve big dreams and move mountains only to realize I was comfortable in my little bubble.
 
Success and dreams require you to get up and out of that zone. They don’t sit around and come knocking on your bubble’s door.
 
They only come around when you’re off your butt and taking big, bold, action.
Want to find out if you’re too comfort comfortable?
 
I have a free worksheet for you to complete. No email required. No strings attached. Get it here.
 
Once you realize where you are settling, then you can take the steps to make the changes you want, live your life with purpose, on purpose and leave a legacy you want.
 
P.P.S. Stay tuned for my 7 Day Challenge on Wholistic Life Planning